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How to Give Your IC, MM and G* a Vacation!

May 29, 2021

Follow the ten steps below! First guide your body into feeling more at ease. Now encourage your IC, MM and G* to go on vacation.

Be aware of the thought and feeling brought to you by IC, MM and G*.
Locate where they live in your body.
Breathe aliveness into that location.
Imagine exhaling all their energies out.
Repeat until your body down regulates.
Once down regulated, put up a stop sign in your mind’s eye when the monologue begins.
Imagine IC, MM and G journeying to their favorite vacation spot to live.
Use Be awake! Be alert! Do not be fooled by anyone (including IC, MM and G)! as a daily mantra to create awareness.
Distract yourself with your favorite passion.
Keep training IC, MM and G* to continue their vacation!
This exercise takes conscientious and pro-active mind training to shift and develop into new patterns. Keep practicing!

*IC = Inner Critic
*MM = Monkey MInd
*G = Gremlin

Remember: No guts, no glory!

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